So many reality-based , feeling-inclusive,… ways of relating the values behind : attachment-dynamics , which hold-on; up-staging & controlling … the limiting & protecting strategies … when receptive capacity is low [ & self-esteem feels out-of-time, or out-of-touch] , with the present pace of the real Relating .
Having a pre-meditated “letting-go” situation-anchor to remind yourself that : behind each felt-need for : self-approval, self-appreciation, or self-control … is a peaceful space … and this “peaceful-space” is actually behind all limit-testing experiences.
To give more quality-time & quality-touch & quality-mind-share … is a truth-practice of love … validating Others from heart-empathy … to express Real Care about Others … a growth-producing process in Relating-Shifts [from Self to Other] as Relationship.
Letting-go [even for “5-minutes” ] helps to release ” the Grasping”, and reestablish a “relaxed focus” and more insight with Love
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Sunheart Sunheart
July 14So many reality-based , feeling-inclusive,… ways of relating the values behind : attachment-dynamics , which hold-on; up-staging & controlling … the limiting & protecting strategies … when receptive capacity is low [ & self-esteem feels out-of-time, or out-of-touch] , with the present pace of the real Relating .
Having a pre-meditated “letting-go” situation-anchor to remind yourself that : behind each felt-need for : self-approval, self-appreciation, or self-control … is a peaceful space … and this “peaceful-space” is actually behind all limit-testing experiences.
To give more quality-time & quality-touch & quality-mind-share … is a truth-practice of love … validating Others from heart-empathy … to express Real Care about Others … a growth-producing process in Relating-Shifts [from Self to Other] as Relationship.
Letting-go [even for “5-minutes” ] helps to release ” the Grasping”, and reestablish a “relaxed focus” and more insight with Love